tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4113488297700126600.post541219590832278187..comments2022-03-24T05:49:28.142-07:00Comments on WALKED IN YOUR SHOES: Holding TimeSusan Greerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15226540039313653855noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4113488297700126600.post-75905559693330640172013-04-04T18:56:06.426-07:002013-04-04T18:56:06.426-07:00What a thought-provoking story. I can think of ti...What a thought-provoking story. I can think of times when this would be very effective with my son.Lisa Riskahttp://www.theliahonaproject.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4113488297700126600.post-2346115382058142992013-01-01T02:51:29.635-08:002013-01-01T02:51:29.635-08:00Perfect sense. The trick it in not absorbing the n...Perfect sense. The trick it in not absorbing the negative while listening. You remind yourself you are facilitating the release. Then you might need to make comments to show you are engaged. By that I do not mean giving advice (not the right time) and say as little as possible. Phrases that come to mind might be - what else - I see - go on - and your frustrated because... You can feel when they begin to wind down but you don't want to stop prematurely. Turning things positive would, of course, be trickier doing this with someone without the disability - but I think it can be done.Susan Greerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15226540039313653855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4113488297700126600.post-24699673542188276162012-12-31T10:24:00.729-08:002012-12-31T10:24:00.729-08:00Hmmm...very interesting. I know someone who needs ...Hmmm...very interesting. I know someone who needs to vent frustrations and afterward feels better and only then can go on with the day. My lesson is that I need not be negatively affected by it and to suggest looking for some positives after the venting session. Then all of us can feel happiness. Does this make sense?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4113488297700126600.post-2904501221150915612012-12-30T22:28:09.597-08:002012-12-30T22:28:09.597-08:00We could all learn so much from that girl sometime...We could all learn so much from that girl sometimes if we would just so and listen with different ears and more loving hearts.....Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12273501531751653822noreply@blogger.com